Christian Stoicism

How a Christian can wrestle with Stoic values, while remaining centered on God

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Comarbae

3/17/20268 min read

In our current age, we are surrounded by distractions, fragility, and constant outrage, where many people feel (I know I have) internally unmoored and externally powerless. Public life is riddled with anxiety caused by political correctness and performative anger of those that are ‘outraged’ by everything that says anything contrary to their world view; this and more leading to an odd combination of moralism and moral confusion. In the context of this, it is no surprise that Stoicism has made a massive comeback in podcasts, self-help books, and online communities that promise personal discipline and strength. For a Christian such as myself, however, a question immediately arises: can an originally pagan philosophy of self-mastery be reconciled with a faith centered on the Cross?

By ‘Christian Stoicism’ I mean a disciplined, ordered way of life that borrows Stoic insights about the passions and virtue, but is purified and made truly excellent through Christian Theology (i.e. Augustine & Aquinas). This synthesis also incorporates the political unease of our time, with the issues of a technocracy, cultural decay, and the contempt of elites of our society still at the forefront of our current age. Therefore, a properly Christian appropriation of Stoicism can form strong, hopeful, and virtuous persons who can resist the nihilistic individualism and dehumanizing systems, without resentment or despair.

The natural starting point for this sort of debate has to be with the Stoic of Stoics, Marcus Aurelius, a Roman Emperor from 161 to 180. His writings, Meditations, have become the center of the modern Stoic revivalist movement. Aurelius writes as a man looking for self-improvement and to find a way to truly govern himself before he governs an empire. He constantly reminds himself to accept what he cannot control and to master his own reactions. For Aurelius, the battlefield is internal: the opinions we have about events, the stories we choose reiterate about ourselves to others, and the habits of thought we cultivate. The Stoic idea of apatheia is often confused with emotional numbness, but it, rather, is the rational ordering of passions so that they no longer take control of the mind. The internal discipline of a man should be ordered towards duty: Aurelius, as emperor, thought that he must fullfil his role in cosmic order, acting justly regardless of his own personal feelings.

that it presumes that the wise man can, by just effort, stand firm while facing an indifferent universe. What, I would say, is missing is a personal God who has love, a drama of sin and redemption, and a community bound by grace in which the burden of virtue is shared. This missing piece can be easily filled by Christian Theology which thinkers like Augustine and Aquinas address. It is not by discarding Stoic insights that we can resolve how a man should act, but rather by baptizing Stoicism and transforming the insights.

Augustine, on the other hand, who was writing in the later Roman world would know the appeal of philosophical rigor and interior discipline, especially since he had a taste of both pagan philosophies and Christian revelation. He respected the Stoic insistence that the good life required more than just pleasure and comfort, as the good life demands serious confrontation with suffering, death, and moral failure. Yet Augustine believed that Stoicism under-evaluated the depth of the wound of sin and over-evaluated the power of unaided human will. Augustine, in all his works from The Confessions and On Christian Doctrine, shifts the center of gravity from self-sufficiency to dependence on God. Stoics seek peace by detaching from unstable externals, but Augustine seeks peace as tranquilitas ordinis, the tranquility of order, where love is fully and rightly ordered towards God and neighbor. For Augustine, the problem is not that we love, but that we love in the wrong order or to the wrong end. We often cling to lesser goods as if they were the ultimate good [God], and we neglect the highest good. Endurance, therefore, is not just gritting one's teeth before fate, but preserving hope because God is faithful and his plan is not random. In The City of God, Augustine contrasts the earthly city, which is built on this sort of disordered love of self, with the City of God, built on ordered love of God, explaining that no political order can truly be our final end. The distinction made speaks to the large contemporary disillusionment with many of our political elites and institutions: Augustine reminds us that no regime, however just they may seem, can satisfy the heart’s deepest necessities.

If Augustine gives us a drama of love and grace, Aquinas will give us a more systematic account of how the passions, virtues, and law fit together in a Christian appropriation of Stoic themes. Aquinas, then, approaches the human person with an analysis of what human passions are, and how they relate to reason and how virtue can perfect them. He rejects the idea that passions are evil in themselves, instead, they are natural powers that can either be rightly ordered or disordered. Through reason, therefore, you should not annihilate the passions, but govern them so that anger becomes righteous indignation, fear becomes prudent caution, and desire is channeled towards the genuine good. As Christians, the virtues become the link between Stoicism’s moral seriousness and Christian Theology. Properly ordered fortitude, for example, perfects our capacity to face dangers and endure trials, echoing the stoic emphasis on courage in adversity, but it situates the idea within the larger telos of man, sanctification. Yet, Aquinas insists that the cardinal virtues are also not enough, that they must be elevated through theological virtues of faith, hope, and charity. Theological virtues supply the exact remedy for Stoicism’s shortcomings: a personal trust in God, a confident expectation of eternal life, and a supernatural love that exists beyond mere rational benevolence. Aquinas’s doctrine, additionally, fixes the Stoic notions of impersonal fate, presenting a true and existing moral order as rational participation in God’s eternal wisdom, not as just a blind necessary outcome. In the Thomistic vision, virtue is not a self-manufactured achievement solely intended to fuel pride, but it is a cooperation with grace that deepens true humility. Taken together, Augustine and Aquinas offer the exact way by which Christians should and can receive Stoic discipline without falling into the fallacy that we as humans can save ourselves, which is the most crucial distinction between Stoicism in the classic sense and Christian Stoicism.


Our culture, to connect these ideas to the contemporary, trains us to be constantly stimulated, perpetually offended, and easily manipulated by fear and desire. The result, then, is a population that is often constantly anxious, thin-skinned, and unsure of how to struggle with basically anything like boredom, loss, or injustice, without just collapsing. In this environment, anger at distant elites, globalized systems, and cultural decay can and have become the dominant mood, especially in movements often labeled populist. These grievances are not imaginary: communities have been hollowed out, families destabilized, and ordinary workers are treated as disposable. Christian Stoicism, like I have described, reads this situation as a moral and spiritual crisis, where disordered loves and disordered structures reinforce each other in an evil cycle. insists that one must begin with personal formation: learning to govern one’s own passions, to think clearly, and to act justly in one’s vocation. At the same time, one must also not reduce everything to private self-help, instead we must renew families, parishes, schools, and local associations as the real schools of virtue. Christian Stoicism stands in direct contrast to technocratic visions that promise to fix society through purely ‘scientific’ data centric management and ‘experts’ who ignore and neglect the moral and spiritual formation of each person. However, Christian Stoicism warns against letting legitimate grievances turn into pure resentment: doing so would corrode the soul and bind us to our own responsibilities.

Right-leaning populist movements express concern for the dignity of ordinary people who feel ignored or mocked by cultural and political elites. Christian Stoicism, then, affirms that virtue is not the preservation of the ‘educated’ elites, rather it is the idea that every person, regardless of status, is called to prudence, courage, and temperance. Both of them share the suspicion that our culture has become decadent, that it is much more interested in comfort and spectacle than in truth, duty, and sacrifice. But where a purely populist movement can fuel anger and desire to “own” one's opponents, Christian Stoicism insists that anger must be disciplined by a properly ordered sense of justice and charity. For Christian Stoicism, ultimate loyalty is not to nation, party, or earthly leader, but to God and the moral law, which sometimes requires resisting one’s side of the aisle. The ‘Stoic’ element demands that we cannot be ruled by the news cycle or by social media outrage, but speak and act with measured courage, even when provoked, directly or indirectly. While a populist movement can appeal to identity and belonging, Christian Stoicism reminds us that our deepest identity is baptismal, and our primary belonging is to the Body of Christ. In this way, then, the energy of populist discontent should be channeled into constructive action: supporting families, working people, and serving the less fortunate, rather than endless warfare (in a literal sense of war and figurative sense). The tension, then, is between a politics of grievance and a politics of virtue, and Christian Stoicism seeks to convert the former into the latter.

If Christian Stoicism is set to be more than a slogan, it must, then, take flesh in concrete action and practices. A first practice is obviously a daily examination of conscience in prayer, in which we review our thoughts, words, and deeds in the light of the eternal (God) rather than in our feelings and mood swings. Additionally, it is good practice to take on simple ascetic disciplines like fasting & exercise to train the body and passions to obey reason and grace. Additionally, set limits on media consumption and a commitment to avoid speaking from gossip or rage and resist the culture of constant agitation. We consciously cultivate prudence by seeking wise counsel, justice by giving others their due, fortitude by embracing difficult duties, and temperance by moderating our appetites. For Christians, such as myself, it is important to seek virtue through frequent a sacramental life and immersion in Scripture. Families and parishes should be the training grounds for Christian Stoicism, children should learn to endure frustration, respect authority and care for the weak. In public life, this way of being yields citizens who can speak the unpopular truths without cruelty, resist unjust policies without hesitation or hysteria, and accept the setbacks without despair. It also produces a refusal to live within the posture of constant victimhood, even when real injustices are present, because a Catholic Stoic knows that his dignity is not in the hands of any earthly regime. Above all, Christian Stoicism is marked by hope: not pure optimism about politics, but confidence that God can bring good out of our trials and that our labor in the Lord is not in vain. Some contemporary Catholic writers, such as Dr. Andrew Abela, in his great book Super Habits, emphasize how small, disciplined practices shape character over time, a theme that is in harmony with the Christian Stoicism outline of virtue.

Christian Stoicism, then, is not the compromise between Christianity and pagan philosophy, but the evolution and elevation of Stoic insights about discipline and interior freedom. Marcus Aurelius inspires the grammar of self-command, Augustine gives the drama of ordered love and grace, and Aquinas gives us the architecture of virtue and law. All together, they offer a way of being that speaks to our current cultural instability and political anger without surrendering to either cynicism or naivete. This way of life stands as the alternative between technocratic management that treats people as nothing but data points and nihilistic individualism that treats life as a private project of self-expression. It calls us to something greater: to begin with our own hearts and households, and then rebuild the communities where real virtue can grow. If we are willing to embrace this demanding but hopeful and virtuous path, you will discover that the combination of Stoic strength and Christian mercy is exactly what our restless age is searching for.